The Second Blow

"We will find each other again, and maybe the stars will have changed, and we will not only love each other in that time, but for all the times we've had before." - the Notebook

Is it possibly true that love can strike for the second time and even stronger?

The feeling of a found love is so remarkable and its impact on someone can change a person for the rest of their lives. we are the sum of every heartbeat we have ever had in our lives.

However the feeling of a love lost is so confusing that it can make the wisest person in the world fall down and ball up like a new born baby. We never know what we lose until it is actually gone. We never know what was actually there until it is compared.

When you have love, nurture it. let it take you away. let your heart beat at its own rate. and if it is lost, know it was for a reason...

but if it comes back, if it accepts you for the second time despite all of your weaknesses..take it into your hands and mind that you shall never close this. Do not capture a love like this and make sure it stays in your grasp forever. Realize that this kind of love found its way back home by itself. It will not go away any longer if it feels at home.

So make your heart home, a home with open doors and no locks. A home so secure that it does not know the meaning of temptation. Make your heart worth everything made now, before, and forever.

on changes

there are times in our lives when we are forced to change.

people may say it is for the better, you may think it is not. in some situations you try to convince yourself that it is the best.

love can make you change. sometimes that change is not all the best. yes, you have become less stupid, you make less mistakes, you are what society says "good". you are his/her ideal partner.

but for instance, within that transformation, you forget how to do the things you love... write, play, crafts, live... the things that had defined you, you are forced to forget. and when these things are gone, you do not know who you are anymore.

what if this change into a "better person" , makes you give up everything you have ever known? what if this "better person" that you have become is not YOU?..

you must take some time. reminisce what is important in life, who you are.

think of the changes. think why these changes.

above all, start again, and this time, do it right. change for the better but for the right reasons.

do not forget how you got to where you are. do not forget the heartbreaks, the stupid things that you have done... because these perfect mistakes are the exact things that made you the "beautiful person" who you are now. change in remembrance of these things, only then can you say that you have changed into the "best person"...