Saturday, April 7, 2012

on changes

there are times in our lives when we are forced to change.

people may say it is for the better, you may think it is not. in some situations you try to convince yourself that it is the best.

love can make you change. sometimes that change is not all the best. yes, you have become less stupid, you make less mistakes, you are what society says "good". you are his/her ideal partner.

but for instance, within that transformation, you forget how to do the things you love... write, play, crafts, live... the things that had defined you, you are forced to forget. and when these things are gone, you do not know who you are anymore.

what if this change into a "better person" , makes you give up everything you have ever known? what if this "better person" that you have become is not YOU?..

you must take some time. reminisce what is important in life, who you are.
think of the changes. think why these changes.

above all, start again, and this time, do it right. change for the better but for the right reasons.

do not forget how you got to where you are. do not forget the heartbreaks, the stupid things that you have done... because these perfect mistakes are the exact things that made you the "beautiful person" who you are now. change in remembrance of these things, only then can you say that you have changed into the "best person"...